Meet Thai Women - Online Dating Tips

Top Reasons To Date an Asian Girl

2010-05-04T11:58:00.000-07:00

The attractiveness of Asian girls is undeniable. Long silky hair, smooth skin, slim, petite bodies and that graceful feminine way they walk. Where western women have come to take long, determined strides in an almost masculine manner, Asian girls move in that slow, sensual way that makes mens head turn.

I'm sure you know what I am on about.

And of course, there's that exotic sense of shy innocence that makes us want to know more. To see what she will be like when you are alone with her. Is there a hidden wild sexual side that is waiting to be unleashed?
If you dared to profess this preference for a western woman, she'd probably respond with a scorn and call you a 'chauvinist' or 'pig'. She will probably mistakenly assume that your attraction to Asian women is a fantasy about having a submissive slave who will wait on your command. Many western women don't seem to understand that doing something for your partner because you care about them isn't the same as being 'weak'.

Anyone who's been with an Asian woman knows this isn't the case. Asian women are not weak or submissive. The Asian girls that I've known have all been smart, strong and capable, yet at the same time, they radiate pure femininity and they enjoy being women.

And they want their man to be a man, so they make him feel like one!

That's the way we were born as men. That's what we need to be truly happy in life. It's simple really; let us be men and let women be women. Take a look at your buddies, emasculated by nagging, overbearing wives, do they seem happy?
Being attracted to Asian women isn't weird, it isn't a 'fetish' or 'yellow fever' nor does it suggest you are in some way unable to handle a relationship with a woman of your own race. On the contrary, I'd say it means you have understood what makes you happy - what would make any man happy if they were to admit it, that you are willing to take a chance, to step out of the box to look for happiness.

Most guys think they have to be rich or famous to date beautiful younger girls.

They seem to grudgingly accept the idea that they're never going to be with a sexy woman who adores and respects them, so they settle for a girl they think will be 'compatible'. Usually that means she will be just as boring as they are.

But check back a few years after marriage, then how many are happy and sexually fulfilled? I don't know of many personally. Many friends have been lost after they again and again had to ask their wife for permission to do anything. They tell their wives that they have to go to Asia for business, while in reality they want to visit me and get introduced to my lifestyle. Those that make it over here, rarely look back.

You know it already; we're driven by the same desires as we were at the beginning of time. We as men crave soft, feminine women; it's what we need to complement us. The missing part. Someone who will need our masculinity and strength. Asian women fit this description like no other females.

I believe there are any reasons, some unconscious that make us attracted to Asian women. Some are sexual of course. Asian women have perfect hairless skin, hard bodies and those feminine almost feline facial features that are so alluring. Asian women do not get fat as they age. In fact, Asian women stay attractive far longer than Western women (it helps that they don't live the 'fast life' as much).

Asian women are also a lot more approachable. I love how you can walk up to any Asian woman and start flirting. As long as you come in with a big smile and you are polite, you are never going to be shot down in that nasty New York kind of way. Asian women love to flirt. As I walk back to my condo every day from work, I always stop to flirt with the shop girls, the University girls or the old lady selling nuts! It's a very life confirming thing. Being a man and being sexual as a man isn't something to be ashamed of here.

Try walking around in any shopping mall in Bangkok, Jakarta or Manila. You will be amazed at the number of attractive girls who will shoot you shy glances and inviting smiles. If you're an older gentleman, you may have all but forgotten what that feels like!

And this is only the superficial side of the equation.

Asian women are fantastic homemakers, wives and mothers. Asian children are always happy and husbands do get cared for very well.

I can't tell you how much I wish I would have discovered Asian women when I was younger. It took me many years to finally make the move and go for Asian women. If you are in doubt, if you are unsure, go ahead and take the plunge. Sign up for FilipinaHeart or ThaiLovelines and start meeting Asian women today. It will be the best thing you ever did. You can always write back and thank me later.

What do Thai girls want in a foreign man?

2010-04-01T17:38:00.000-07:00

Thai-Farang relationships are a common a sight in Bangkok. The number of interracial relationships in Thailand seems to grow every year. Even in the outskirts and suburbian area you can almost be certain of seeing some foreign guy hand in hand with his Thai girlfriend. So why is it that so many Thai girls seem to go for a Western man instead of a Thai guy that she would have a lot more in common with? Most foreigners in Thailand don’t even really understand Thai culture, don’t speak the language and don’t understand Thai women! Are Thai women really attracted to foreign men or is it really about money?

There are in fact many reasons why a Thai girl would go for a foreigner. Let’s take a look at some reasons that I think are common. Most Thai ladies I have talked often mention money, fidelity, physical chemistry and worldliness. Some may be only interested in one of those or all of them, but it’s a good starting point in figuring out why Thai women end up dating white guys.

Money

Some Thai girls place the most importance on the financial stability or even wealth that a foreigner brings with him. These girls are mostly interested in improving their material posseisions and financial security. She may be a go-go dancer from a poor village in Isaan and wants money to send to her parents or she may be middle-class university student who wants a rich sugar daddy to sponsor her parties, clothes and cellphone upgrades. She is looking for an older, wealthy (or at least generous) guy who understands that being with a young attractive girl as an older man isn’t going to be free. She is easy to spot if she is working in a bar or go-go, but she can also be found on social networks and dating sites and she may have many foreing ‘friends’ already. If you are fine with this type of relationship then a the best way to win her over is a dinner at a fancy restaurant or VIP seats at an event and then a quick (and expensive) shopping spree to one of Bangkok’s many malls.

Fidelity

Thai men are notorios for their extramarital affairs. This is most common for the lower class guys. A lot of Thai girls share a similar story of falling in love at a young age with a hometown hero who then ditched her when he found out she was pregnant. Many end up in Bangkok sending money back and rarely see their child. This girl is very often looking for a decent, loyal foreigner who will be willing to settle down with her and support her and her child. In return, she is ready to be the best wife she can be; loyal, caring and dutiful. She is willing to overlook a substantial age difference as long as she thinks he will be true to her and stick with her for the long run. She is often found in bars, pubs and restaurants frequented by foreigners or on the internet on a dating site like ThaiLoveLinks. She isn’t going to jump into bed on the first date, but she will probably make a great girlfriend or wife.

Chemistry

Some Thai girls (many?) just think white guys are cute. She has grown up with MTV and David Beckham and now she has some sort of reverse yellow fever. She is often early to mid twenties with a good education and has maybe even studied abroad where she caught the taste for muscle bound westerners. This kind of girl is most often seen in trendy bars and caffes or in young, hip areas where foreigners hang out like Kao San area. Forget about getting with this girl if you’re an older guy (unless she also looks for a sugar daddy). Get her hooked by sporting the latest fashion, dancing, keeping the booze coming and partying it up. This is all physical.

Worldliness

I’ve found that most middle-class Thai women who date western guys almost always say that they enjoy dating them because they feel like they are respected more and have more freedom of expression. She is tired of dating Thai men who expect her just to be a pretty, cute wife void of any personality and opinion. She enjoys the chance to express herself and try new things without being judged in a rigid Thai society. She is looking for an educated, intelligent foreign man who will show her the world and bring her along with him as they explore life together. You meet her at a trendy café or bar, maybe in a hotel lobby or even on the internet, but she isn’t going to chase you. Impress her by showing your drive and ambition without bragging.

Conclusion:

As you see, there are many reasons why a Thai girl would want to date a foreign guy and money is definitely not the only reason. So, if you want to meet a nice Thai girl, think about who you are and what kind of lady would be attracted to you. Are you the type happy to settle for a quiet countryside life or are you looking for a partner not only in bed but someone who can keep her own in a conversation. Do you want a string of flings with girls from Kao San clubs? Regardless, get out of the bars and gogos and start exploring the other side of Thailand.

Asian Dating Method Exposed - How To Hook Up With Asian Girls

2009-11-20T14:28:00.000-08:00

"For every man who loves Asian Girls

and wants to know exactly how to get them!"

Why are you here? Let me guess, there's a girl in your life and she happens to be Asian? Maybe you met her at your college, in Chinatown? And now you have no idea how to date an Asian girl? Does her friends cockblock you and make her hard to approach? Does she have reservations as being labeled a slut if she dates a non-Asian? Is it just that you want to meet and seduce attractive Asian girls?

The Asian Dating Method will teach you how!

Most men are attracted to Asian girls, they just don't know it yet! That long silky black hair, that petite sexy body, great legs, an amazing smile and great personality. Asian girls are often very feminine. Those who have already had an Asian girlfriend will find it very hard to go back. Right? Asian girls are great girlfriends and excellenet wives. Most Asian cultures put a lot of emphasis on being kind, sweet and caring and Asian girls got that in abundance. Pretty damn hot as well!

Filipina, Thai, Chinese, Japanese? All Asian cultures share some similarities that are very different from what we're used to in the west. If you want to date Asian women, you have to understand were she is coming from and how you can use that information to present yourself to her as boyfriend material. She may even like you a lot, but if you can't get the acceptance of her social circle, her friends and family is never going to let that happen! This goes for Asian women in Asia as well as everywhere else.

Today, you get the chance to learn all about this from an awesome audio book and dvd, that's usually not available to the public, only to those who pay $1000 for a seminar.

Most books about dating Asian women are pure garbage, really, they are. They are written by outsiders, non-Asians and are of little use to anyone.

This one is different, written by the Asian Playboy aka. Johnny Wolf, he teaches guys how to 'break the code' when dating Asian women.:

How to 'trap' an Asian girl into becoming your girlfriend by sleeping with her FIRST!
How you can use a simple THREE STEP process to MEET, SEDUCE and SLEEP with hot Asian girls.
Excactly what to do AND what not to do! Avoid falling into the pittfalls that 90% of all guys do!
Learn the best, hidden places to meet Asian Girls!

How to build trust, comfort and DEEP RAPPORT with any girl in UNDER 5 MINUTES!

Johnny Wolf is a full-time Dating Coach and have taught hundreds of men how to get the Asian girl of their dreams. He is also a lecturer at Harvard University and a very successful businessman. There's really no one more qualified to teach you how to meet, seduce, sleep with AND keep Asian women than Johnny.

"Are you worried that you're too old, fat, bald, short, ugly, to use this information?"

Don't be! The information on Johnny Wolfs DVD isn't about looks, age or wealth. It's about becoming a man that no woman can resist and knowing exactly which buttons to push for Asian girls to fall madly and deeply in love with you.

I can only recommend you take action now and gives Johnny Wolf a chance to change your dating life for the better. Do you want to get the Asian girl of your dreams? Trust me, you wont regret it! Check out Asian Dating Method and make your own decision!

My Thai Dating Site Recommendations

2009-11-18T14:06:00.000-08:00

If you are reading this article, you are likely one of the thousands of men who would like to have a Thai girlfriend or Thai wife. That's great! Thai women are known for their beauty around the world. Sexy slim bodies, long black hair like silk and almond shaped deep brown eyes. Not only that, Thai girls are fun and easygoing and it is reason enough to start dreaming about Thailand. This article is about how to meet your Thai girlfriend on a Thai dating site. I have tried to list all the Thai dating sites, that I have tried and heard about.

Are you looking for fling, girlfriend or wife? Do you use Facebook already? Did you use Myspace? Or are you from the ICQ times? Online since yesterday?. Every one of the Thai dating sites are used by a different age group and for different things, so try to use one that fits you the best. Ok, without without wasting more of your time, lets have a look at where to find Thai girls online:

Social Networking Sites

These are not dating sites as such, but like all social media sites, they can be used for chatting with other people, including of course Thai women. There's a bunch of them. Hi5 is is very popular with teenagers and young Thais. If you're young enough to not get freaked out by Hello Kitty everywhere, then give it a shot. Tagged is also a very popular social site with Thai girls and women. Slightly older girls here, probably 20-30 years old. Facebook is gaining in popularity, but it's not as massively popular as in the West. Facebook is good to meet Thai women online who are students or work in international businesses.

Free Dating Sites

Is free really free and is it any good? There is one or two free strictly dating sites in Thailand and they are not that great, considering the alternatives. There's Date In Asia, which has a bad rep, though mostly because of scammers from the Philipines. It's possible to find the occasional diamond in the rough, but many times you will just be talking to serial internet chatters, ladyboys and girls on the take (if any of those rock your boat - do sign up!) Thailand Friends is a popular networking and dating site for Bangkok expats and Thai girls who'd like to meet them.

Paid Dating Sites

These fall into two categories: Dating sites and matchmaking services. I'm not going to go into paid matchmaking services as I think they they were more of a pre-internet thing. Of the paid dating sites, There's really only two worth mentioning: ThaiLoveLines and Thai Love Links. I have written a review for both on the website in the link. Both have their qualities but I recommend Thai Love Lines for several reasons (read my review, click the link).

How I Make Pattaya Girls Buy Me Drinks

2009-11-06T09:35:00.000-08:00

Did you know that there's some residents in Pattaya who live what I call the 'rockstar' lifestyle on nothing more than $1,000 a month? These guys are not young or particularly handsome, they just took the time to actually learn a little about Pattaya and more importantly about the girls of Pattaya.

You see, while thousands of thousands of single men come to the bars and gogos every night, throwing their money around to be seen as a big shot, there's guys behind the scenes waiting for those girls to finish working to come to their apartments. These are the guys I was talking about. They're Dan from America, Hans from Denmark, Tim from England, ordinary guys like you and me, who wised up to life in Pattaya.

One guy I know haven't bought a drink in 4 months and it's not because he doesn't drink. It's just that whenever he goes out, it's always with friends, girlfriends that is, who are more than happy to share their bottle with him. Another guy I know has a list of 30+ girls on call at his cellphone.

What do these guys do different from the hordes of tourists that come to Pattaya? Well, for one, they actually took an interest in the girls and where they come from. They learned about their lives, their backgrounds, heck maybe they even read a book! But you know what? When 21 year old Noi from Buriram finish work at the gogo, politely refuses the suitors to head home to her farang boyfriend, I bet that guy think he got a pretty good deal.

If you want to learn how to ditch barfines forever, I strongly suggest you read Pattaya Girls by Richard Gilmore. He's the guy who taught me the other side of Pattaya. The best side of Pattaya. It's only $20, or the price of a few beers. I think you'll appreciate the deal! Or read this article on Pattaya Girls.

Pattaya Girls – Temptresses of Thailand

2009-10-30T13:48:00.000-07:00

Thai women hold a certain reputation around the world. Renowned for their beauty, femininity and mysterious ways of making a man fall head over heels in love with them, they have been a draw for Thailand unlike anything the tourist authority could ever come up with. I have a theory that the reasons why Thailand was never colonized was not the doing of the Thai men, but of the Thai women!

No place in Thailand is there a higher concentration of beautiful, sexy and single Thai girls than in the seaside resort of Pattaya. This little fishing village grew when Vietnam war soldiers would go there for their time off. Pattaya girls have since held a special place in many mens hearts and minds.

Pattaya girls are the epitome of beauty, sexiness and fun. As a tourist, expat or retiree in Pattaya you will know what I mean. Pattaya is simply a dream come true for many single men. An adults Disneyland, a place where your fantasies come true.

Many men who go to Pattaya eventually end up looking for more than just nights of hot sex with attractive Pattaya girls and want a girlfriend and eventually wife. You can certainly meet your future Thai wife in one of the bars or gogo’s and many have, but there’s so many more opportunities. Did you know that there’s thousands of Pattaya girls working in the tourist industry and elsewhere that would love to meet a Western man, but are too shy to go to the bars?

Richard Gilmore is a long time Pattaya resident and has written a great guide called “Pattaya Girls”. It reveals all this and more. It’s only $20 and is available for immediate download as an ebook. If you’re going to Pattaya, you should really check it out!

The Philipines - An Alternative To Thailand?

2009-10-26T15:08:00.000-07:00

Most people on the tourist trail never make it to the Philipines and that's a shame since it's a beautiful and interesting country. Poor as it is someplace, the people are some of the friendliest and velcoming you'll meet anywhere. The Filipina ladies are also very beautiful.

Yes, I bet you agree!

I've dated some Filipina women in my time, when I went there for business trips for longer periods. I've heard that many men who look for a Filipina bride use the site FilipinaHearts. I haven't had time to check it out, but apparantly it's run by Cupid, who also run ThaiLoveLinks, so it may be good?

ThaiLoveLines - Thailands Wild Dating Site

2009-10-23T12:49:00.000-07:00

ThaiLoveLinks used to be the preferred dating site for those in the know in Thailand, but recently it seems this site has become less popular and it's now ThaiLoveLines (yes, rip off name) that has taken the place as Thailands new wild dating site. There's just so many women on there looking for a farang girlfriend or fling, it's crazy! I opened a profile and within minutes I've got emails coming in from women. Never seen anything quite like it! Try it out!

The price is about the same ($20 a month) and the site is similar in design. There's more than 200,000 members now and it's not as well known as ThaiLoveLinks, so you can avoid some of the bargirls and scammers on ThaiLoveLinks.

Watch Out For DateInAsia scams!

2009-09-19T11:36:00.000-07:00

Ok, so I recently heard a story from a coworker back in the states about a guy who has recently lost over $2000 on an elaborate scam from DateInAsia. Apparantly, the guy had been chatting to a nice Filipina woman on the website, or so he thought. Then the stories started, she was sick, her brother needed money to pay of the police etc. He sent her money with Western Union and even sent her $1000 so she could buy a ticket to meet him in the US, but she never came. Seems she was a scammer of which there are many on DateInAsia. Read more about it here: DateInAsia scam.

Watch out!

Some Good Articles on How To Meet Thai Women

2009-09-06T08:06:00.000-07:00

OK, I recently stumbled over these two articles, which I thought were good:

Meet Thai Women

and

Meet Thai Women

Check them out!

Thai Online Dating Tips - 5 Tips to Writing a Killer Online Profile

2009-08-25T12:40:00.000-07:00

In this article we are going to look at how to write an online dating profile that will stand out from the crowd of dull Thai online dating profiles. Online dating can be a great way to meet Thai women and with these tips you will already be one step ahead of the competition. Before we get to the tips, let's have a look at what we want to show in our profile. Women all over the world respond to the same things in men and Thai women are no different. It's not that differet to meet Thai women. A good profile should highlight your good traits and downplay your bad ones. What you want to show in our profile is that you are:

Funny: Women want someone they can have fun with and share a laugh. This is a big one for Thai ladies! Funny guys do really well with Thai women.
Adventurous: Women want a man that will show them a good time and let them see and experience things that they wouldn't otherwise have tried.
Confident: Women want a man that is independent and assertive. Thai women are very feminine and submissive and wants a man that can take charge and believes in himself.
Direction: Thai culture places a lot of importance on a mans career. You want to show that you can take care of yourself and her and that you are going somewhere in your life. If you are closer to retirement age, then she wants to know that you will be able to retire comfortably.

Be sure that you get your good qualities trough with your description. The description along with the photos are the key to a good online dating profile! Let's look at some tips on how to make the most of your Thai online dating profile:

Tip 1: Be Different

This one is easy. If you remember the above advice and follow these tips then your profile will be different without you even trying. You want to stand out from the crowd and avoid using the same lines that everyone else are using. Instead of writing things like "I like to have fun", show it! I mean, who doesn't like to have fun?

Tip 2: Show, Don't Tell

Many guys miss this one. Don't just list facts about yourself, show them with your pictures and your writing. If you're a guy that likes to crack jokes, write one in your description! If you like to cook for you girl, don't just say so, paint a picture with words of your favorite dish. Pictures are good for showing, look below!

Tip 3: Have Good Photos

Photos are the most important part of your profile. Yes, Thai singles women will read your profile, women do that, but they will look at your profile picture first. Your photo's don't need to be amazing, but they should be flattering for you. You should have a profile photo showing your face and with you smiling or looking happy. Thais like to take pictures of themselves outside such as when traveling or by the beach. If you have a photo of you doing something outdoors then that's great. Also remember that Thais are very aware of status, so if you have a nice car, boat or motorcycle, by all means show it off, but don't make it the main focus. A good tip for finding a good picture is to ask a female friend, coworker or family member to choose between a few pictures.

Tip 4: Play to your positives, don't tell your negatives

In short, put your best foot forward. We all have quirks and shortcomings but your online dating profile is not the place to show them. Always look for a positive angle. Don't mention any negative things about yourself until you're in a relationship.

Tip 5: Don't brag and be polite

The last tip is also about what to do when you get contacted by a Thai woman, and you will be. It's a good idea to be a little humble and polite at first. Don't brag to much, especially not about money or she might expect that you will use a lot of money on her.

Follow these guidelines and you are sure to get more success with Thai women online than you could possibly imagine. It's not unusual for you mailbox to be flooded with emails if you're on a Thai dating site. Click the link to see reviews of Thai online dating sites.

Thai Online Dating Sites - How to Spot Fakers - Date In Asia Scam

2009-08-25T12:11:00.000-07:00

Thai online dating site are a great way to meet Thai women for marriage or dating. There are thousands of Thai singles waiting to chat with foreigners and the success stories are many. Many Thai-Foreign couples meet online and stay together happily ever after. But as with all good things, there are some that try to exploit these sites. These include insincere women looking for a good hearted foreigners to try and lure into sending them money or otherwise set them up later on. Some sites are notoriously worse than others. Google "Date In Asia Scam" and see what I mean. Stay away from those sites at all cost. How do you know if your Thai lady is genuine and has good intentions? Below is a list of warning signs to watch out for.

Your Thai lady may not be who she say she is if:

She invites you to a webcam 'show' within minutes of chatting to her
She asks a little too many questions about your financial status (though it's normal in Thailand to ask these questions in the beginning of a conversation).
She is very slow to answer back when you chat with her, she is probably chatting with 3 other guys at the same time.
She quickly mentions how she is poor.
She quickly tells you of some family emergency that will cost money.
She has a very attractive profile photo but does not want to send more or use webcam. Watch out if she asks for your personal information, but won't share any with you.

Watch out for these telltales of a faker. Of course, she may have good reasons for doing something on the list, but if she does ALL of them, then consider if she is really genuine. For a lowdown on the DateInAsia Scam